How Porn Can Negatively Affect Your Relationship

It is fine if you are thinking about spicing up your relationship to add a little fun to it that you can find when you watch porn. However, there are times that too much porn can start to affect your sex life and make it unsatisfying for both you and your partner. If you are watching so much porn that your relationships are suffering then you already know that you need to stop watching so much. It doesn’t help if you have a partner that either doesn’t agree with porn watching or only likes it once in a while. Again, porn is not the problem, but if you are watching it so much that you are not being fair to your partners then it can be a problem.

Watching too much porn can put a wedge between you and your partner by creating distance that shouldn’t be there Shibuya Kaho . The distance is caused by the fact that they may think that you are untrustworthy if you are constantly being aroused by women on screen or online. They start to feel that they are not beautiful enough for you or that they do not satisfy you.

Porn can be a great way to introduce variety and spice to any sex life, but if one person in the relationship has expressed the sadness in you watching it too much, it is time to put an end to it. Instead of just having porn to spice up your sex life, you need to add other products to the mix so that you can create a new excitement for both you and your partner. There are plenty of other toys and oils that you can use to create a sensual environment that you both enjoy.

You could start to role play or create fantasy life. You could even role play that you are a porn star so you still feel involved in the porn industry. You could try sensual oils which help to increase your erections while at the same time, making things very lubricated and wet. There is even an orgasm inducing cream that you can use on her. When she starts to have these amazing orgasms she’ll be so thrilled that it will be hard for her to still be mad at you.

A common situation we find among men who are regular porn users, is they have increasing difficulty becoming aroused by their spouses. Many men admit that pornography initially helped them get more excited during sex, but the longer they used porn, the more it had the opposite effect. To get aroused during sex, they had to fantasize with the images and scenarios they had viewed in pornography-like acting out a porn script. Some tried to get their spouse to imitate porn stars, because the “same old sex” just didn’t produce the rush. While this is more than enough to seriously damage a relationship, it gets worse.

Like a drug addict, the porn user’s brain habituates and no longer gets high on the fantasy images and kinky sex techniques that once turned him on. So, he seeks different images-more graphic, more variety, harder core, etc. He may try to manipulate his spouse into even more bizarre sex acts. Or, he may simply go through the basic physical motions, but any real intimacy and connection is missing. Eventually, for many porn users, sexual intimacy with a spouse becomes infrequent or abandoned altogether, replaced by the more stimulating rush of their porn drug.

The tragic irony in all of this is that while pornographers boast about pushing the envelope by introducing new, harder themes, what they don’t reveal is that they must do this because their customers build up a tolerance to the content. Thus, over time, the porn user becomes “impotent” in two ways:

1. Getting aroused becomes increasingly difficult without continually altering the pornography diet. For many, arousal with a spouse becomes problematic or even near impossible. It’s very telling when Internet porn sites are filled with ads for Viagra-type drugs to treat impotence, or “erectile dysfunction.” This misleading term implies that these men have a problem with their genitals , but the problem is with a brain and nervous system continually habituating to a powerful drug-always needing more to get the same rush.

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